corporal punishment (again)
Other side, if all this is right, why do people feel guilty after every act of causing physical punishment to their children? Isn't it the same feeling which we get after doing something wrong? This feeling is our internal meter, a device installed by God. The people who are against corporal punishment argue the negative effects of corporal punishment. Firstly is corporal punishment can scared the children, it settles fear and phobias in child's mind, and of course there is psychological effect to them. It cause the children don't want to study again.
Secondly, the children will learn violence, it teaches them that you may to hit someone you love. And that you can use violence to express you love, beside kissing, hugging or saying sorry. That effect extremely poisonous lesson. Like I told you before, the parents will feel guilt if they punish their children by physical punishment. Generally parents beat their kids in a fit of anger. After some time when they are at peace and give a second thought to the misbehavior of the child, they realize that probably kid didn’t behave as bad as they then perceived, and he didn’t deserve that punishment.
Then they hug, kiss, feel sorry and love their kids. They try to find ways to compensate the wrong they did to their child.
In summary, after looking at both arguments we can see that the negative effects of corporal punishment are more than the positive. Because, the negative effects of corporal punishment are dangerous. If you have tried and failed using all kinds of corporal punishments on children, try reading and applying the other techniques which are more humane. Believe me you can easily do without any physical punishment.
yeaah.. ohya, ini hasil karya saya dan Thufail Abdurrahim. dapet nilai berapa ya waktu itu? hmm
Secondly, the children will learn violence, it teaches them that you may to hit someone you love. And that you can use violence to express you love, beside kissing, hugging or saying sorry. That effect extremely poisonous lesson. Like I told you before, the parents will feel guilt if they punish their children by physical punishment. Generally parents beat their kids in a fit of anger. After some time when they are at peace and give a second thought to the misbehavior of the child, they realize that probably kid didn’t behave as bad as they then perceived, and he didn’t deserve that punishment.
Then they hug, kiss, feel sorry and love their kids. They try to find ways to compensate the wrong they did to their child.
In summary, after looking at both arguments we can see that the negative effects of corporal punishment are more than the positive. Because, the negative effects of corporal punishment are dangerous. If you have tried and failed using all kinds of corporal punishments on children, try reading and applying the other techniques which are more humane. Believe me you can easily do without any physical punishment.
yeaah.. ohya, ini hasil karya saya dan Thufail Abdurrahim. dapet nilai berapa ya waktu itu? hmm
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